If you are having problems in your relationship with your spouse, it is high time you did something about it.  Though you might think to yourself, why should I do all the hard work?  The answer is, someone has to take the initiative, and ultimately the others will follow.  So in the end you stand to gain just as much by having a changed attitude and a different perspective on things.  However, it is not easy to do that when you are angry and frustrated all the time, you have to first learn how to calm yourself and take control over your emotions.  That is the first technique you will learn when you read the Magic of Making Up.  The book will then continue to tell you about the magic of making up review what men and women desire the most in a relationship and how to achieve that.  It will guide you through techniques to avoid those useless arguments and how to strengthen your relationship and keep the passion alive between you.